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July 16, 2018

Ep #121 It’s Allegedly A Man’s World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid

Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive?  Is what he's saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion! 

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July 10, 2018

Ep #120 What’s Good for the Goose, Isn’t Always Good for the Gander

Come join us as we introduce our new co- host Miss April Speaks and dive in to dating at a certain age. Is dating in your 20's like dating in your 30"s ? Do things get better? , Worse? , Easier? Come Chat with us!  Comment below to join in the conversation !! 

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July 2, 2018

#119 - Letting Go & Moving On

There's this meme that reads "Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go". In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can't we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.

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June 26, 2018

#118 - 4:44: The Story of MJ - An Intervention w/April, Brigid & Randy

12 episodes ago, a conversation started. Today, we (finally) have it. Tune in to hear how this band of brother (and sisters, literally and figuratively) try to bring hope back into the life of a jaded spirit. You don't want to miss this informative, important and invaluable conversation dealing with relationships, dating, and personal struggles. Grab YOUR friends and listen in. Maybe it might spark a dialogue within your group to share your stories with one another. Enjoy and educate!   

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June 16, 2018

#117 - Keeping Relationships Fresh w/guest “The Rock God of Podcasting” Charles Mcfall

In this week's episode Jenn meets the Rock God of Podcasting, Finally! and we all chat it up about how to keep a relationship fresh. The important things to do that will keep your significant other feeling all the feels they felt on day one, even if its day 5236! Charles helped us break down keeping things fresh before you start a family with little one and after.  Also howto notice and discover the root of what your partner really wants and needs from you.  So check it out, and let us know what are your thoughts , tricks and tips on keeping it fresh! 

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June 12, 2018

#116 - Man-Child / Kid at Heart: Admiring or Adult Wanted? w/Brigid

"Why don't you GROW UP?" "GET A JOB!" "Do something with yourSELF!" We've all heard THAT before right? To some, those exclamations remind us of our adolescence when our parents were down our throats about our future. To others, however, it reminds us of last week - but this time - with our significant others! In this episode we talk about the difference between a man child and a kid heart. Is there a difference or should they just both put on their adult pants. Are the significant others out of line? Should the men be allowed to have a fun side? You know what they say "all work and no play..."  But what do YOU say? Would you tolerate a man child or would you leave him in the dust in his diapers? Tune in to see what we said! 

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June 5, 2018

#115 - Can You Be/Stay in a Celibate Relationship?

How much is sex important to you? To some, it's MONUMENTAL. To others a big MEH. Experts say sex is important in a relationship. Others say SCREW the experts (no pun intended). What do you when confronted with the fact someone you're newly dating tells you they're celibate? Do you stay or skidaddle? What do you if you're in the middle of a relationship and your partner decides that they want to become celibate? Do you join in or jump off at the next exit? Waiting til marriage to some sounds wonderful, but others don't know when that big day is - so is it worth the wait, to wait? Tune in to see what we think about this! 

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May 23, 2018

#114 - Is Your Self Body Image Affecting Your Relationship? w/SUPER FAN Sam

You wake up, feeling bloated, & go check the scale to confirm your assumptions. *Ugh* 10 MORE pounds?! WHYYYY. You jump back into bed, completely cover yourself in your blanket and make yourself into what you feel like - a human burrito. Your S/o comes in the room to greet you but you've decided to never interact with the natural world AGAIN! Over dramatic? Sure, but it doesn't take away how a lot of people feel when it comes to their self image. The feeling of doubt, shame, and despair are written all over our faces with no pads to remove the things we "makeup" about ourselves. So what do we do? Our S/o loves us just the way we are, but why don't we? Why can't we see the brighter side of things? Here to discuss this topic is UK's own Super Fan Sam as she shares her own personal story of her struggle with self image and reveals what fears she has when it comes to her weight and relationship. Tune in to hear some great stuff!  

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May 22, 2018

#113 - What’s In A Name?: I Now Pronounce You, Mr. & Mrs. Uhh? w/Miss April Speaks

There you are about to enter the reception hall. You hear the DJ say his announcement "and now for the first time ever, I present to you ---"; the doors open. "Mr & Mrs (Fill in the blank)." What do you want to be called? Do you have your new married man or are you keeping your surname? Now more then ever that question is up for debate when it used to a non issue. What happened? Is it a sign of the times? An Archaic trope? Is it disrespectful to not take the new "family" name or is it just as disrespectful to assume that your new wife would? "A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" - William Shakespeare. We'll see about that! Tune in to see what this trio had to say on the subject!

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May 16, 2018

#112 - The Strain, Stress, & Strength Within: Relationships & Mental Illness w/Miss April Speaks

From school shootings to our favorite musical artists, the elephant in the room has now become the bull in a china shop. Mass hysteria for something we should have had under control for some time now. At least we're now talking about it publicly as opposed to putting it under the rug. Mental illness. Even if you don't have it, it's reach will effect you in some form or fashion. It's one thing to hear about it on the news, but how about if someone you desire is going through their own battles? How do you deal with that? Do you want to learn more or are you scared by what you hear on TV? Will you pre-judge or take the time to learn that maybe your diagnosis of what mental illness is is greatly exaggerated. Tune in to what we had to say on this very important subject. 

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May 9, 2018

#111 - Thoughts, Views & All That Jazz w/Jasmine & Sarah

Back on the podcast is Jenn's niece, Jasmine, and her girlfriend Sarah. It's a laid back episode this week as we tackle subjects that pop up from thin air. What a fun, thought provoking, emotional episode it turned out to be. Who says Millennials are the worst? (oh yeah, Jenn does! lol) Tune in to hear what goes on in these young minds and inadvertently how old they make us feel.

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May 1, 2018

#110 - I’m Not Mad. Whatever. Fine. UGH!: Passive Aggressiveness & Dating w/Brigid

"It's okay". "Thanks in advance". "No that's okay...I'LL do it". YEESH. Have you heard or spoken any of these lines? We put so much effort into avoiding conflict. Are you the same? Can you identify? What are the reasons? How can we stop it? We had the lovely Brigid back to tell us her story about her most recent bout with passive aggressiveness and we also a LIVE listener question! Tune in to hear what we had to say!

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April 24, 2018

#109 - Naked & Afraid: How Do We Date & Mate In a #MeToo World? w/Sexologist & Psychotherapist Dr. Kristie Overstreet

From Ansari to "I'm Sorry", there's been a range of the good, the bad, and the ugly pertaining to the #MeToo Movement. The one thing lacking is sort of a "rules and regulations" to the conversation. How do we date in a #metoo world? How do we touch/make love to a suitor? Can we still mimic what they do in the movies or is that outdated? Can a person be "too" careful enough to ruin the mood? No one wants to make anyone uncomfortable so how do we go about interacting with someone in a romatic manner? We got a returning guest to hopefully help us make sense of this new world we live in. Tune in to see what we came up with!

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April 16, 2018

#108 - So Close Yet So Far: The Dating and Distance Dilemma w/Brigid

Have you ever dated someone only to find that they're juuust out of reach? Not mentally out of reach, or even physically - but geographically. We're not even talking long distance either. Maybe a bridge away or a couple tolls, or how about even a hour away. Yes, as the saying goes "what won't you do for love", but we're not being lazy here! Going back and forth seeing someone who may live in a metropolitan area while you may be "in the sticks" is a daunting venture in the world of dating. Time & money are at an all time high when dealing with these parameters. So is it worth depleting your resources for this person, or should you just find someone with the same zip code? Tune in as we talk this out with our guest! 

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April 12, 2018

#107 - Tambourine Or Lead?: What Position Should You Play in Your Relationship? w/Arvie

This is pretty much a revisit of a topic we explored on Episode 29 but with a new spin on things and with a new person! What position should we play in a relationship? Should we take turns? What if you are the lead and don't feel comfortable being the submissive one because it doesn't suit who you are? Will you step back for the betterment of the relationship or do you feel that we have our roles to play and no need to play musical chairs? Listen in to hear what we had to say! 

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March 27, 2018

#106 - Is Marriage A Bad Investment? w/Randy & Miss April Speaks

We got a PACKED HOUSE this episode because it is such a hot topic that we couldn't do it alone. FINALLY, it's the two people that we've been trying to get on at the same time meeting for the first time EVER! We were waiting for the fisticuffs to fly between our guests but little did we know, the tables would turn and it would be the HOSTS that would be in the heat of battle! One guest even got some verbal jabs in to prove their point. Was it justified or was insecurity at play? Was it "Tough Love" or a battle royale? What in the blue hell could have gotten us all riled up? You're gonna have to tune in to find out! 

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March 22, 2018

#105 - MGTOW: Social Movement or Simple minded? w/Author Noble Casalupus

With #MeToo, #TimesUp, and female empowerment in general putting women in the forefront, there's one group that can't it take anymore and wants to bow out altogether and that's M.G.T.O.W. MGTOW or "Men Going Their Own Way" have rallied together and decided that women aren't worth the hassle they put men through and have gone on to focus on their own endeavors sans distractions. Was Al Bundy onto something 25 years ago when he started "No MA'AM?" on Married... with Children? Does this movement actually have merit to it or is this movement as dumb now as it was back then? Find out what we and our returning special guest think about this faction of fury! 

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March 22, 2018

#104 - “What a Slut!”: Sexuality & Shaming w/That Horror Chick Aimee

"Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me." Whore. SKANK. Hoe bag. Trick. etc. Um, are you sure? Women & teenage girls get harassed on a daily basis with those words and they are most certainly getting hurt by them. Anything that a woman does gets scrutinized. from wearing something that shows her curves, to an instagram pic of her being revealing, or even her talking about her sexual exploits, a woman can get verbally attacked by being just who she is yet met with countless voices telling her what the masses THINK she is. How do we combat this tug of war? Does a woman have to be discreet to be respected? Are women too sensitive to criticism? We got a guest from the past to discuss this and she was all too eager to return to shed some light on something that was dear to her heart. Tune in to see what we said!

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March 13, 2018

#103 - The Friend Zone: Does It Actually Exist? w/Musical Artist J. Chase

Ahh.... the Friend zone. The lovely place where hopes and dreams go to die. Melodramatic, I know, but hey that's how it seems when we get put in there. Sadness, Disappointment, and maybe some slight resentment. Is the friend zone really that bad? Or is it just all in our heads? Should you stay friends after you get rejected? Or should you leave because that person doesn't know what they're missing out on. Questions, questions  which is why we had assistance for the podcast who knows a thing or two about the friend zone. He wrote a song about it, want to hear it? Here it go.. tune in to hear the song and advice from us and our guest RIGHT NOW! 

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March 1, 2018

#102 - Exes & Oh Oh: Is Your Past Love meddling in Current Affairs? w/Miss April Speaks

Are you still friends with a former lover while being in a new relationship? Have you guys settled in your new roles or has that ex crossed the line a couple times? Do they still reminiscence about the past? Do they talk about how things could have been different? Do they have something to say about your current relationship? What does your current partner think about this? Do they even now this side commentary is going on? "What happens in the past, stays in the past". Not always as it seems. How do you even begin to deal with a situation like this? We had to get some help on this one as Miss April Speaks lends her sage words on the issue. Tune in to see what she says!

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March 1, 2018

#101 - “But Babe, They’re Just a Friend” aka The Person They Told You Not to Worry About

"Babe, who's that?" "Ehhh.. nobody, you don't need to worry bout them". "Don't I now? MMMmmmm HMPH." Why do we do that to ourselves? Why can't we just "be"? Have we been watching too many "soaps" to think that the opposite sex just can't be friends? Is the person we're not supposed to worry about be the VERY THING we're supposed to worry about? Should we let our paranoia get the best of us or just trust our partner that they aren't or have never been any shenanigans going on? Tune in to see what we think!  

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February 22, 2018

#100 - In Retrospect: I Wish That I Knew What I Know Now…

Happy 100th EPISODE! We made it! Thank you all for listening and joining us on this crazy journey. This ep we take a trip down memory lane, give shouts to our guests, and we replay THE AND! Also our actual topic: What were some of the things people told you when you were younger about life / love / sex / relationships? Did those things live up to the hype? Have those “Pearls of Wisdom” from Your Youth held their weight in Adulthood? Tune in and celebrate with us! 

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February 13, 2018

#99 - Codependency: A Bond worth Breaking

"I need you." "I can't do this without you." "Don't Go." "Stay with me. PLEASE!" To the untrained eye these could be taken as excerpts from your favorite romance movie or it could be something deeper. To be able to rely on a significant other in time of need is wonderful, but to feel that you need them to "live" is most certainly not. We delve into the topic of codependency for a bit, and even though we didn't have a guest per se, we had a person in mind to mine from their experience.

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February 2, 2018

#98 - An International Love Affair w/SUPER FAN Sam

We did things a little differently this episode. We invited one of our faithful listeners on the show! Besides fan-girling out, she gives a live Q & A, what she likes about the show and also shares her story worthy of a BLB stamp of 'WTF?!'. Come listen as we feel the love from the internets!

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January 30, 2018

#97 - He Said, She Said & the Gray Area of Consent w/Miss April Speaks

Rape. Regret. Consent. Coerce. Harass. Her ass. Misconduct. Misunderstood. Yes. NO. #MeToo. Men too. These words have been on the forefront of every blog, news ticker, morning radio show, and internet timeline for the past 5 months. We thought it was time for us to give in our own 2 cents on the matter. Join us as we discuss the serious matters of Today the only way BedLoveBeyond knows how: with Laughter, Listening, and of course Learning. Tune in as we try to tackle and make sense of what's going on in today's climate together. 

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January 22, 2018

#96 - I’m a Lover, Not a Fighter: Can There Be No Fighting in a Relationship?

There's a saying that goes "Make Love, Not War". Good words to live by, but how long can that vibe last in a relationship? There's bound to be moments where the parties involved clash on something. So when that time comes, how are you going to deal with it? Run away and say goodbye if you want to survive screaming out "It's time to be free?" Are you going to fight dirty and say things to emotionally cripple your partner just to win? Is it worth it? Are you going to take the high road and hold your opinion in and not fight. How good is that for your soul to not be able to share your thoughts? Listen in to see what we think on the matter! 

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January 2, 2018

#95 - Seeing Eye to Eye to “I Do”: Does Your Parent’s Vision of a Partner Match Your Own? w/Randy

"No one is good enough for my daughter!" "I'm not gonna let some floosie take away my son!" YIKES! Have you come across statements like that in your life? These might be exaggerated but unfortunately they DO exist in some form or another. If you're thinking about being in relationship (or already in one), there might be a chance that your parents won't like your significant other. They might have had someone totally different in mind for you. So what do you do with that? Do you try to find someone that suits their wishes for you? Or do you just go with your gut and let your heart decide? Could there be a chance that your parent's vision for a partner can match your own? Tune in to see what we think on the matter! 

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January 2, 2018

#94 - From Dating to Ratings: Is Reality TV Killing The Sanctity of Marriage? w/Randy

Marriage was everything back in the day. It was such a pinnacle point in one's life to have pride and joy in. Now-a-days, marriage seems like something you do when you're bored on a Saturday night. With shows like "Married At First Sight", "90 Day Fiance", & "The Bachelor/(ette)", people have been complaining that these shows make the sacred act of joining people for the rest of their lives into a farce. These shows make the ceremony or act to be trivial and flippant. While the shows are entertaining because their trainwreck premises, could their be truth to the complaints? Are these shows ruining the sanctity of marriage or is this just the sign of the times of how marriage is viewed by the populace? Tune in and see what we think! 

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December 28, 2017

#93 - Delusions or Solutions to Your New Year’s Resolutions

Well, well, well... it's that time of year again! A year of reflecting and getting ready for the new year. Jenn & I makes our wish list for 2018 and also we take a look back to see if we kept our promises from 2017 as well. Do you keep your resolutions or just toss them to the wind once the ball drops? Tune in to see what we have to say about you keeping up with your list! 

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December 3, 2017

#92 - Will They Commit or Should I Quit?: How Long is TOO Long To Move Forward? w/Ricardo C.

"Shit or get off the pot". Who hasn't heard THAT one before? YUP, you know the scenario. One person, arms folded, tapping their feet with a stern face on while the other is scrambling to make a decision. Is the jig up? Who knows, it's up to the parties involved. But while people might think what's taking so long, another question that you should ponder is why it took so long in the first place. Decisions in a relationship whether it's moving in or getting engaged should not be taken lightly. It takes a considerable amount of courage to do either so one shouldn't just dive in without first going it over. On the other hand, how long does it take to come up with an answer. You've looked it over from any angle & went over every scenario. TWICE. When is it time to take the leap? Is it now.. or never?

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November 22, 2017

#91 - A Number’s Game: Does Age Really Matter in A Relationship? w/Bruce Mulkey & Shonnie Lavender

Is age really nothing but a number? To some it's everything. "I can't date a person younger / older than me?! It's just creepy!" To others, it's a very 'go with the flow.' "The heart wants what it wants" and all that. But can your relationship be successful when you realize when you were 12 your beau was in diapers? What do you talk about? Can you keep up with one another? Are you too old and they too young that the both of you use the "airplane" method to feed each other? WHAT'S GOING ON?! Luckily we have 2 great guests to break this age gap down for us. Does love know no bounds no matter the timespan or should we just stick to people our own decade and apply to AARP together? Tune in to find out what we think. 

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November 13, 2017

#90 - Going Out On the Prowl w/ “The Bad Boy of the Dating Game” Mr. Locario

Confidence. Game. SWAG. In the dating game, you're gonna need any one of those aforementioned words if you're gonna make it out there in the field. It's bad out there, and in this age of social media and dating apps, gaining a person's attention is getting harder and harder each day. How do you make yourself stand out? How do you keep the person you have once you got got them? How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood? We have a special guest to help us out with our questions (okay, maybe not the last one). So tune in and listen as there are a lot of mic drops on this episode - particularly cause I'm clumsy - but ALSO because our guest is dropping some KNOWLEDGE up in this place! 

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November 13, 2017

#89 - Breaking Free & Taking A Walk on The Wild Side w/Naughty Lifestyle Expert Sienna Sinclaire

"Timid", "tepid", "tame". Every heard these words before? How bout "reserved", "restrictive", "restrained"? Yeah? Cool. Now, ever heard these words used to describe how you are sexually? Yikes. Don't fret, BedLoveBeyond has got you covered. For some reason, when it comes to sex we as a people are very modest. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule, but overall we can be quite the bashful bunny when it comes to being venerable in that arena. I'm not talking about getting freaky with strangers & one night stands, but more so long standing relationships and even in marriages (with kids!). We feel, well... "naughty" about being naughty! Huh? How can you not be comfortable with your partner or the person who has pledged to stay with you until they die? Who else would come in line after that for you to go "yeah, okay, I can bring down my wall for this person"? For this ep, we wanted to free and talk about the naughty side of life and some of the things you can get yourself into if you want go that route. Listen in and add some spice in your life! 

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November 9, 2017

#88 - With This Ring, I Me Wed: Is Sologamy Empowering Or Embarrassing? w/Kathy Iandoli

Solo. Its definition is "a thing done by one person unaccompanied, in particular" but, depending how you look at it, can be taken different ways. Usually solo is looked at negatively. You're by yourself, you're doing this workload alone, there's no one here to comfort you in your sorrows, etc. But now, particularly women, are reclaiming it to be a positive term. Sologamy has been trending for some time and now it's at the forefront as something people might want to consider. Others see it as a cry for help and a look for desperation. Which side of the coin do you fall under? Listen in as Jenn, myself and our special guest Kathy discuss what this whole new wave is.  

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October 3, 2017

#87 - Don’t Judge A Profile By Its Selfie?: Would You Shun A Suitor Based On What They Post On Social Media?

Ladies, did someone ever slide in your DM and impress you so much that you just HAD to look at their page? Did you ever do a double take because of what was posted? They were *this close* to getting your number until you saw a chick with her face down ass up on his page. Fellas, you were about to ask for her digits before you saw that their whole wall was about God? Or Feminism? Do these things really raise flags in our eyes or are we just too judgmental? Jennifer and I discuss the in's and outs of this hypothetical. Take a listen, will you? 

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