July 27, 2019
Join us for our last episode as we reunite and talk about all of our favorite moments of this podcast that was birthed from some of our most intense moments in growth and love. We thank each one of you from the bottom of our hearts for riding with us. As where you will not hear our lovely voices for a while, BedLoveBeyond is alive and well and we hope to thrive by staying up to date with all the on goings around the world and keeping these conversations that are so very important going. We plan to keep the bedlovebeyond.com page and blog and interact with our followers in that manner. We also encourage you to write into us at Bedlovebeyond@gmail.com and share your stories. Each one. Teach one. Looking back we joked around alot but we spoke on many important topics and if that helped even one person then this podcast served its purpose. Thank you again !!
July 6, 2019
In this VERY SPECIAL EPISODE of BedLoveBeyond we talk about how movies , TV and Media have changed in what is acceptable to show us. Should young people be watching shows like Euphoria and Grownish that depict drug use and extra curricular sex or should it be like the 70's and 80's and just touch the surface and sugar coat important topics? Join us in this convo!!
June 15, 2019
On this episode we discuss people outside of someone’s life trying to influence other people’s private decisions. Decisions that are based on their own life experiences and circumstances. From the policing of women’s bodies (ie abortion) to opinionated commenters on social media. We delve into why people need to consider not being open to public permission for their private decisions and why people should stop trying to force them to. Share with us a time you felt like a public permission was given for a private decision?
June 1, 2019
Join us this week as we discuss the exciting and yet pretty fucking crazy concept of Gaslighting. Where did it come from? Is it happening to me? Have I ever done it? , and of course How to avoid it!! If you still are not sure what it is.. We tell you some movies that were clear indicators of Gaslighting .So let us know where you stand on the topic.. Have you been gaslit before? Did you do it to someone and didn't realize? Join the convo below!!
May 18, 2019
Join us this week with our returning guest Charles Mcfall. See what he has been up to! Catch up with us and join in the conversation as we talk about how temptation in a long term relationship is still there and how we overcome it. Is it possible? Also we talk basic relationship maintenance and survival . Let us know your thoughts below!!
May 4, 2019
Today’s episode is about dating people that are younger than you. Is it good? Is it Bad? Does it depend on certain circumstances? Listen to us delve into this funny, but serious, relevant, somewhat important topic! Join us below in the conversation!
Have you dated someone younger than you? How old were you and they at the time? How was the experience?
April 20, 2019
We're back from Spring Break !!... In this episode we are talking specifically about women getting friend zone. Yes, this is a WHOLE conversation. Manhood, ego, communication, maturity, emotional intelligence, sexual attraction. Can you really be friends with the opposite sex? There are a bunch of sub topics under this umbrella. Listen to us work it out with our new resident millennial— Kamal Brown.
March 30, 2019
Time.. Time.. Time.. See what's become of me... This Hazy shade of winter is wrapping up and spring will be sprung...all in good time, But how much time is actually appropriate. Come chat with us as we explore dating and the progression of a relationship. A relationship grows just like the flowers bloom.. But how long should it take before you give someone a key to your place, move in, get engaged, have sex, or even get married..Join us and share below your experiences.
March 16, 2019
Would you date someone who was a Felon, Heavily tattooed, has dreads, a physical handicap or maybe a midget? What about Mental illness, Divorced, a person who had an abortion or told you they asked someone to get an abortion. We dive in to these topics and discuss what sometimes society views as a Stigmata. Are any of these for you? What are yours? Should we judge? Join in on the conversation!
March 2, 2019
Join us this week as we discuss the trials and tribulations how we nip/ tuck, shave, braid, weave, shadow, stretch, paint, dye, pluck, cut, suck, and change the fuck out of our bodies. Have you ? Would you ? Could you?
Ladies would you date a guy who has a weave ? or what about a fake beard? Fellas, Would you date the girl with the lopsided butt cheeks? Join in the conversation. See how far we would go!
February 12, 2019
In this episode we discuss whether love at first sight is real or just a myth?? We run down our daily dish and catch up with you guys!.. Have you ever had at first sight?? Join us and tell us below!!
January 26, 2019
Check us out this week as we are joined by our special guest TJ Sopoci from the Chicago Based Podcast Menage-A-Pod. We collab to dive in to all of this week's hot topics that seem to have everyone's panties in a bunch. Miss April is back this week to discuss her POV with the aftermath of Surviving R Kelly, and we all try to figure out what was so offensive that has men wanting to #MUTEGILLETTE. We love a good beard, but really fellas?? And if the week couldn't get any weirder there was a rumble when Louis CK was being Louis CK. We talk about what responsibilities comedians have and if they owe anyone an apology. #sorrynotsorry. Check us out and let us know what offended you this week??
January 11, 2019
This week on Bed Love Beyond we are joined by Music Journalist Kathy Iandoli to discuss the aftermath of the Lifetime Docuseries "Surviving R.Kelly". R Kelly is a world renowned R&B artist who was rumored to have dated and married Aaliyah in 1994 and has allegations brought against him in 2004 of him having sex and urinating on a 14 year old female. Although at the time he was found Not guilty , other allegations continued to pile against him. Most recently with the birth of this series, it has been noted that the R&B singer is operating an abusive sex cult, and with the growth of the #MeToo movement women are coming out in droves speaking up about the mental and sexual abuse they have endured under this man's reign. Why did and do these women continue to flock towards him? Why are so many women and men still defending his name and his honor? What makes a person commit such heinous acts against another person? We talk about all this and more. Join us in the conversation. What's your stance on the topic?
December 29, 2018
Join us for our end of the year wrap up as we talk about what needs to stay it's ass in 2018, and what needs to grow for the new year. Fake butts, Fake friends, Toxic people and relationships. Will you read more? Eat more veggies? Watch more movies? What are your resolutions? Hear ours and share your thoughts below!
December 22, 2018
Join us this week as we discuss how to navigate the holidays with your family and your significant other. April gives great advice on how to avoid those sticky questions from your family. We also talk about gift giving , What to expect and what not to expect! Join in the convo and let us know how your holiday went below!
December 8, 2018
On this episode we discuss what we would tell our twenty something selves. And, what we would tell to the millennials who are currently the center of attention regarding the current state of our society. In the spirit of an upcoming New Year, we are reflecting on what we would tell our twenty something selves in order to embrace our continuous growth and enlightenment; and to encourage our listeners to grow, evolve, embrace change, and not feel bad about occasionally schooling a millennial or two. :). Share your thoughts below
December 1, 2018
In this episode we are discussing men with baggage and the women who try to “fix” them or continue to deal with the baggage for a long period of time. We discuss the toxic myth of, “ride or die chick”, and the difference between leaving and loyalty. Join us and leave your thoughts below.
November 17, 2018
Chick Flick? or Man Picks? What's your favorite? Why do they need to be categorized? Do men really enjoy " Chick Flicks" ? and Do women actually enjoy " Man picks"? Besides figuring out where to eat , picking a movie always seems to always be a tough decision for Netflix and Chill nights or Date night. Come hear what we have to say about our favorites in these categories and what our other listeners have said. You know we are big movie buff's here at BLB, Come join in the convo!
November 10, 2018
In this episode we our discussing moving on with life after a breakup and how the break up can affect your personal growth and development. Often times we think we have stopped growing, learning, and developing because we are adults but like a flower if you no longer take care of yourself you die. You can be physiologically alive but mentally and spiritually dead. From our discussion we want you to learn or keep in mind to continue to shine, thrive, and be your best self through life and loves greatest battles. Share your stories below!
November 3, 2018
Our friend Aimee stops in for a visit to discuss the " Taboo" topic of DD/LG. Dominant Daddy/ Little Girl relationships. We talk about this community of women who love dating men who are literally old enough to be their " Daddy". Also how the word "Daddy" doesn't necessarily mean father and how it is interchangeable. Come here our thoughts and Aimee's account of dating an older man. Would you date an older man? If you're a older man would you date an younger woman? Have you ? Come join in the discussion and share your thoughts below!
October 27, 2018
Hey Lovers this week's episode was developed after a recent Episode of Law and Order SVU. We didn't know that INCELS were given a name and even a movement. Even though there is a an extreme side to this dive in with us as we give you the intel on these Incels. A group of men in an online community that hate women and themselves because they can't get women to have sex with them. There are even extremes where the men have taken what they feel is theirs by way of rape. They call the men who they think are hogging all the sex "Chads" and the women who 'lust' after them "Stacys". See what are opinion is on this intense topic and weigh in below to give us yours!
October 20, 2018
Have things in the bedroom started getting a tad chilly? Do you want to keep that spark alive? Join your favs from BLB as we sit down with a our new Canadian friend Marie-Claire Thauvette , a Canadian relationship coach, AASECT certified sexual educator, and woman on a mission to teach individuals and couples alike about the power of intimacy and communication. She is also the author of Honeymoon Playbook, a book for both newlyweds and longtime partners alike, teaching couples how to light a romantic fire in their relationship. Join us as we discuss her book and her thoughts about why sex is important and tips and tricks to keep things hot and toasty in these cold winter months approaching us! What are some things you have done to keep things fresh? Join in the conversation below!
October 13, 2018
So you finally met your bestie's Boo and he or she is HORRIBLE!! Now what? Or Your Best friend tells you that even though you think you've found Mr. Right , they feel like perhaps he's Mr. Right Now..
How do we handle these situations? Are we to choose? Join Us this week as we dive in to this topic. How have you handled the situation? Tell us your thoughts and stories below!
October 5, 2018
Join us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do's and Don'ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!
September 29, 2018
Come chat with us this week as we discuss our Sex Expo experience , A day filled with Dildos , Chastity Belts and Tacos. We also have a conversation about the recent controversy on the Interwebs about the hosts of 'The Guys We F@$ked' Podcast who are being called Racists for fetishizing black men. Do we as Podcast hosts have a duty to not spread negativity? or Is it on some First Amendment Freedom of Speech and what not?? We also dive in to Ghosting! What is it? What are the effects of it? How to avoid it? Let us know how you are feeling about these topics weigh in below!
September 22, 2018
Join us this week for our conversation about one of the most difficult things to talk about with your partner... MONEY!. Who's got it ? Who doesn't ? Who should pay? How to split the bills when cohabitating? We dive in to all the ins and outs and we will discuss how to navigate this tricky conversation. No matter how hard this conversation is to have it's a must. Better to know before it's too late. Check it out and Share your comments below and let us know how you had this conversation or if you need to ... You've come to the right place.
September 15, 2018
“Open Mind, open heart….open relationship?”. Join us this week as we discuss whether sharing is caring or just plain crazy. If you are in a relationship do you feel like it's okay that your partner steps out on the relationship as long as he or she follows the " rules". Hear the listener's thoughts and come and share some of yours.
September 8, 2018
Join us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags. Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !
September 1, 2018
Join us this week as we chat it up with Joshua Shea , Former politician, Magazine Publisher and Porn Addict. Joshua shares his story of ups and downs and offers a candid look on that taboo topic of Porn addiction. What constitutes addiction? Can women be addicts too? How Porn addiction affects families? Check out this eye opening conversation and join in the conversation about this topic with your fellow listeners below!
August 25, 2018
Join BedLoveBeyond this week as the ladies chat it up about if the 'myth is true" and whether it's the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat. Does Penis size really matter? Is there such thing as too big? or too small? Also find out what "BDE" is and if you or someone you know has it! Fellas find out what women are actually saying about this taboo subject.
August 18, 2018
Ever told a tiny little " white" lie to avoid hurting someone's feelings? Your Partner asks you ," Do I look fat in this ?" What do you say ?? We all know sometimes the truth hurts, but maybe it's our delivery. Have a chat with April and Jenn to discuss which white lies should never be told, Which one's are OK, and how to change the dialog so that you can be honest without being hurtful. Have you ever told a white lie to avoid something ? Did it ever backfire? Join in the conversation below and share your stories!
August 11, 2018
Join us this week as we dive into the popular topic of TOXIC MASCULINITY! We talk about how society, media and general upbringing has shaped how people define a man and how men define themselves. Also how society defines masculinity with exaggerated masculine traits like being violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive , etc. We talk about how we as women can be change agents in changing the conversation with our partners and children to open up doors for positive emotions as opposed to just negative ones!
August 1, 2018
In this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it's okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change? Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say" Hey babe, you've gained a few pounds, get on that"!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations. We all know no one is perfect , but how far have you gone to try and change your partner or what have they asked you to change? What did you think about that ?? Join in the conversation below !
July 24, 2018
In this Episode of BLB , the ladies discuss what makes a man or a woman marraige material. Women and Men are quick to say they can't find someone to settle down with but forget to ask themselves, " What I am bringing to the table?". Women are not going to take the womanizer male seriously if he like to put out that playboy persona. Same for ladies who want to bare it all with out leaving anything to the imagination. Does this get you your Happily Ever After or just the Ex to the Next ? Come discuss with us and leave your thoughts and comments below. We love you hear from YOU!!
July 16, 2018
Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive? Is what he's saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!