"Shit or get off the pot". Who hasn't heard THAT one before? YUP, you know the scenario. One person, arms folded, tapping their feet with a stern face on while the other is scrambling to make a decision. Is the jig up? Who knows, it's up to the parties involved. But while people might think what's taking so long, another question that you should ponder is why it took so long in the first place. Decisions in a relationship whether it's moving in or getting engaged should not be taken lightly. It takes a considerable amount of courage to do either so one shouldn't just dive in without first going it over. On the other hand, how long does it take to come up with an answer. You've looked it over from any angle & went over every scenario. TWICE. When is it time to take the leap? Is it now.. or never?
December 3, 2017